goals

  • A Harsh Reality post this Sunday as I enjoy my coffee. Life’s not fair. It never was, it isn’t now, and it won’t ever be. That may sound harsh, but it’s the truth. We’re often told that if we work hard enough, play by the rules, and treat others well, life will return the favor.

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  • The ancient Stoic philosopher Epictetus said it best: “Men are disturbed not by things, but by the view which they take of them.” It’s a line that has survived for centuries because it contains a truth we still need to hear today—most of our suffering doesn’t come from events themselves, but from the story we

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  • We love the stories of overnight success. The musician who “came out of nowhere” with a hit song. The business owner who “got lucky” with a viral product. The athlete who “just has natural talent.” But the truth? None of it is luck. None of it is an accident. Behind every shining moment you see

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  • Sobriety: A Super Power

    I used to think alcohol was helping me. Helping me calm my nerves. Helping me socialize. Helping me “relax.” The truth? It was a crutch. A slow-acting thief disguised as a friend. For years, I thought I was drinking to take the edge off my anxiety. What I didn’t realize until much later was that

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  • Every morning, the alarm goes off. We groggily rise, repeat the same motions, grab the same coffee, take the same route to the same job, interact with the same people, and do the same things. And before we know it, another week has flown by. Another year. Another decade. You blink, and life has become

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